by Katie Rice
Happy New Year!!
This year I don't resolve to:
lose weight
get organized
make more money
exercise more
write more
read more
or
spend more time with family and friends
Those resolutions never seem to last anyway...
I do vow to appreciate what I have today: good health, time with family and friends, financial stability, time to do what I love most: reading, writing, running, biking, walking my new doggie (more about her to come), and adequate space for everything I need. I may not have an overabundance of these things, but I have what I need right now. Overly high expectations of myself and others invariably lead to a dead end.
I think, in this new year of 2012, we could all use a bit less self-transformation and a bit more self-appreciation. Let's turn down a notch our unending quests to try harder or be better versions of ourselves. Let's find more contentment with who we are right now and appreciate what we accomplish every day just by authentically being ourselves. Not ideal, airbrushed, romanticized versions of ourselves, but rather the real, imperfect, genuine and good enough ones.
The concept of not trying harder contradicts everything we read and see these days, but I truly believe we accomplish more when we positively focus on what we are versus what we could be. On what we're doing right versus doing wrong. Awareness of our present situation helps us recognize what's working good enough in our lives, and how certain unrealistic ideals can simply be let go. Often this simple, singular approach can work even better than setting numerous goals that not only are vague but also don't account for the way we are wired.
Katie Rice is a career coach, her website is GROW.